17
Aug
Email to Slug…
Slug,
The options I see available to us at this time are:
(1) We come to a MUTUALLY agreeable time for a swap. As mentioned, the first available weekend for me is 28th October. This of course is my preferred option. I have yet to see a reasonable explanation as to why this cannot be the case.
If you insist on not swapping, and permit SD9 to stay
home, then the options are:(2) I lodge a breach of orders with the court, along with the breaches earlier on in the year. My solicitor says I have a strong case, and I will also be claiming court costs so this will be an expensive option for you.
(3) We go to the management team of OurChurch to mediate a resolution. (As per Matt 18:15-17)
Please think about what you are doing here and let me know which option you would like to persue.
CFDH
Slug is trying to force a swap. We are happy to swap - just not on the dates she insists upon.
SD9 and I were going to do something fun together on the day Slug wants to swap, but she is insisting on a swap for a day when I will be out of the country. She is insecure and does not want me to have fun with SD9.
She keeps telling DH that he COULD do a swap, but he’s LYING. :eyeroll: so she refuses to swap for any other date. He’s actually working on the weekends when I’m away.
Weve had two, two page emails of emotional blackmail from her over this. 
I’m so over the 
I have better things to do with my life!
