18
Dec
Why Does She Have To Make This So Hard!!!
Her response to our previous email?
WDH,
You get to spend the evening with him on the Sunday, you get to spend the evening with him on the Monday. As you work for yourself I’m sure you’re able to arrange your schedule so that you have the afternoons to spend time with him – also you’re planning to put him on the train in the middle of the day so obviously you’re around to do that.
SS13 is quite happy for it to be a swap. We talked about it.
BTW - Putting him on the train at midday on a Tuesday doesn’t suit me – as I’ll be at work and won’t be able to pick him up in the middle of the afternoon.
So it’s up to you.
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And she still feels she can tell DH how arrange his work week and his time. 
 She’s so Narcissistic, it oozes out of her pores. She seems to think she knows how his day should be arranged better than he does.  I hate her know-it-all attitude.
You “caught us out” again BB :sarcasm:
If we tell her that we won’t pay for it all unless she drops this idea of it being a swap, she’ll use that to PAS SS13 with. I can just hear her now “Your Dad doesn’t love you because he is only willing to pay when it is totally on his terms, and when he gets something out of it”. 
We are thinking of telling her that as we cannot come to an agreement about the course in January, it is on later in the year and that SS13 could attend when BB is able to organise the transport.. BUT we will not know our financial position then so she may need to pay for it when the time comes.
Best we can come up with at the moment… although I think we will put off replying until we have the skids here for Christmas so they can’t be PAS’d during the fracas.
What a stoopid :cow:
