08
Jan
Out in the cold..
Speaking of paranoia.. the kids told us that they are no longer allowed to bring their housekeys when they come to our place. 
 I guess 
is scared that we would go into her house or something.  
 I have no idea why she would think that - we honestly don’t care that much! I guess it is part of her Narcissism, she believes that we would try to gain access if the kids had a key. After all, she is sooooo fascinating. :sarcasm: She’s oblivious to the fact that we try to think about her as little as possible, and the only reason we do is because she is causing trouble.
I also think there is some projection there too.. we have noticed projection on many occasions. What it tells me is that if she had the opportunity to get into our house, she would use it.. 
When DH moved in with me, she would go around and go through his mail at his old place. We even found the notice from the real estate agent about his bond in the mailbox, opened and with the envelope missing! She’s called me and hung up.. done drive-bys of the house.. so it’s not too far fetched to think that if she had access to a key…
Anyway.. SS is apparently “allergic” to our red couch. SS has had an infected toe for a number of years now, and she keep treating it with NAET. (SS was allergic to the sun, and to his own reflection at one stage, but she “cured” him of that. .)  And how did she know he was allergic to our red couch? Because she “tested” him, and all of the other furniture at our place, to work out what it was. That means she now has a description, care of SS during the “treatment”, of every piece of furniture in our house, what it looks like and what room it is in.   I don’t believe she thinks that she was treating SS for his toe - she was just nosy and wanted to know what we own. Since she has just ordered a new lounge suite, according to the kids, I have no doubt what we own and what it looks like are of great interest to her at the moment as she is very competative with us and knows she would never gain entry to our house, so SS’s description is really the only way to make sure she measures up… that what she has is “better”.Â
It’s this kind of stuff, this “intelligence gathering” that makes me feel stalked. What furniture we have is really none of her business!
Actually I feel sorry for her. It must be an awful feeling - like you are outside in the snow, peeking in the window watching the family inside having their wonderful Christmas together, and not even noticing you, standing out there in the cold…
